When It’s Time to Forgive Ourselves

“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life and have it to the full” (John 10:10).  I have lately heard people blame themselves.  Sometimes the blame takes the form of declarative statements: “This injury is my fault.” ...
I Will Dance Again

I Will Dance Again

Vickie’s Story: My first husband and I lived on old farmland in the Midwest with deer on our property. We enjoyed spending time outside with our dogs and cooking on the grill. During the summer, I suddenly woke up one morning with incredible neck and back pain,...
Warm Fuzzies

Warm Fuzzies

Linda’s Story: My childhood home didn’t necessarily overflow with warm fuzzies.There were many fun times with my father, but my mother suffered from undiagnosed mental illness that caused all of us to walk on eggshells. I knew my parents loved me in their own...

I Didn’t Think I Needed to Change

Amanda’s Story: I’ve always been a perfectionist. In first grade I had a huge stack of unfinished worksheets in my desk because I didn’t want to turn them in until they were flawless. I grew up believing that if I worked hard enough at something, I...
Cursing My Cancer

Cursing My Cancer

Geneva’s Story: I was diagnosed with colon cancer in my late 40’s after having a colonoscopy. A picture of the tumor was given to me and the doctor explained that the tumor was too large to remove during the procedure because it was the size of an orange....