Why Are Women’s Retreats Important?

“It’s a hassle to find someone to watch my dog.”

“You haven’t seen my ‘to-do’ list at home!”

“When I leave my husband with the kids, he complains. It’s not worth it.”

“Going on a retreat feels a bit out of my comfort zone.”

The idea of attending a women’s retreat comes with real barriers. Whatever the reason, women sometimes wonder if it’s worth the effort. Interviews with a dozen retreat planners reveal convincing evidence a woman will get lasting benefits for her time and money invested in retreats. First, let’s take a look at what a women’s retreat is. Then, we will consider 3 purposes for women’s retreats that highlight why they are important.

What is a women’s retreat?

Women withdraw together to a place that provides a break from everyday demands. The retreat schedule centers around knowing God and others better to facilitate growth. The activities may include teaching, worship through music, Bible study, small group discussion, fun outdoor activities, sharing stories, personal and group prayer, writing a story of God’s faithfulness, and more. If the time involves staying overnight, late night talks, star gazing, and yummy eats may be part of the experience.

What is the purpose of a women’s retreat and why are retreats important?

The purpose for a Christian women’s retreat is transformation. A woman experiences growth when she has an open heart to learn from God’s Word, spend time in His presence, and seek to connect with God’s people. Breaking away from normal routines helps accomplish the goal of seeking God and becoming more Christlike through the following avenues:

Friendships Are Built

When women attend a church or other gatherings, they may see others in passing and perhaps enjoy brief interactions. However, there is usually not time to linger over conversation. The retreat experience creates the space for conversations that can be organic and extended. As a result, friendships are built in a day or two which could take months to nurture elsewhere in a busy culture.

Greater Involvement in Community

By attending a retreat, a woman has a context for experiencing community. As a result, she may become more involved in the activities and opportunities provided by the community after the retreat is over. This will give her outlets to use her gifts and skills. She may even volunteer to help with the next retreat.

Renewed Perspective

By slowing down to listen to God through the Scriptures, the leading of the Holy Spirit, and other believers, a woman can find fresh perspective. She may evaluate her priorities, her dreams, and the challenges she faces to living out her faith. She may also gain a measure of emotional and physical restoration from the time away. If a woman has an ongoing need for counsel and help after the retreat, she can choose to share her needs. Her vulnerability can serve as a launching point for others to rally around her in some way.

A retreat paves the way to participate with God in His ongoing work in a believer’s life. Nancy Abbott, YMCA Chaplain in San Antonio, Texas, and former women’s ministry director at churches in California, Illinois and Texas, emphasizes the importance of retreats. “Retreats are one of the BEST things I know to bring women together, get them out of their comfort zones and in a different environment that allows one to focus, rest, and listen. I think we live in a culture where it is hard to make these happen, but I sure don’t want to give up on them.”